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This week we have something a little special on The Spanking Billboard or actually I should say something very special! I read as many spanking blogs as I can when I get the opportunity and to be honest rarely do any of them stand out to me and that includes my own blog. The reason that most blogs fail to really separate themselves is because a huge majority of blogs post about things that happen to other people in the spanking world so the personal touch is really non existent.

Update blogs like The Spanking Billboard have their place and we typically get a pretty large number of readers however to me the cream of the crop when it comes to spanking blogs is the straight to the point non affiliate promoted real life blog from a female who genuinely loves spanking!

Well let me say that when I came across the writings of Alicia Panettiere on her blog http://aliciapsroom.blogspot.com/ I was instantly interested in what she had to say and made it a regular stop on my spanking blog menu! As my interest increased I decided to contact Alicia and see if I could do a little interview with her so my readers could learn a little more about her and I was very excited to get an agreement from her to do so.

With that intro here is the short interview I conducted with Alicia as well as some pictures that Alicia thought all of you would enjoy.

In your own words who is Alicia Panettiere?

I am just a normal girl who was born and raised in the midwest. I was thrilled when at the end of 2008 I discovered that an adult spanking community existed and there were others who share some of my same thoughts and longings for discipline. I jumped in headfirst because I knew that I knew that this was what I wanted.

I’ve evolved quite a bit over the year and a half that I’ve been involved- from bottom, to switch, to Top and spanking model. Additionally, I have began accepting professional discipline session inquiries from those unable to make it to spanking parties or events, who might not otherwise have the opportunity to be spanked.

I enjoy writing entries for my blog because I believe it helps others to not feel so alone in their spanking desires. I don’t mind being open with my thoughts and experiences as long as it helps others come into their own and come out in the spanking community.

I consider myself to be a pretty quiet person, a “thinker”, which can sometimes come across to others as snobbish, but I am trying to come out of that shell. If I am not saying anything it means that I just can’t think of something to say, but usually around other spankos I tend to be much more talkative than I am around vanillas- maybe that is because we have so much in common.

What sort of non spanking hobbies do you like to do just to relax and have fun?

I enjoy traveling, acting, dancing, singing, playing slots at a casino. I like amusement parks, especially the roller coasters. I like curling up on my couch and watching a good movie. Spending time with family and my cat and 3 dogs: McKenzie is my cat, Casey is a Sheltie, Tucker is a Papillon, and Bailey is a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel – they are my “kids”.

If you could meet one person who would it be?

The Spanking Couple – Veronica & Dr. Daniels. When I first found out about spanking I watched alot of videos and found several that they have Topped in. I really enjoyed seeing them because they are both really good at scolding and I found myself feeling very submissive just from watching them. I’d love to have to opportunity to meet them and possibly even have a session with both of them.

What is your favorite show on TV?

It’s been awhile since I’ve watched alot of TV, but some of my favorites have been: 7th Heaven, Heroes, The L Word, South Park, The Office. I also like to watch shows where there is discipline dealt out to the children, such as The Brady Bunch. Even if a child is simply being scolded I enjoy watching it over and over again.

When did your interest in spanking begin?

I grew up without any sort of discipline and I had no respect for my parents whatsoever. I have had a noticeable longing for parental discipline since middle school and used to do things to get in trouble with the teachers so they would punish me, or even just simply give me a stern “talking to”. I started having spanking fantasies at age 17 when I began going to church and during the sermons, the pastor would sometimes talk about spanking as a form of discipline for children. Interestingly enough, one time the pastor’s wife told me that I needed to be spanked! That shocked me but I really wish she would have done it.

When you first started thinking about being spanked what was the storyline in your mind as to why and how you were spanked?

I always imagined being spanked by an ideal parental figure, and usually a mother. I would be in trouble because of my disrespectful attitude and being rebellious, and she would take me into the home office. She would sit down and I would be standing in front of her and she would scold me for a while then take me over her knee and spank me over my jeans with either her hand or some sort of kitchen utensil. Then after it was done she would hold me on her lap, hug and kiss me, and reaffirm that she loves me.

What are your favorite and least favorite spanking implements?

What is my favorite? This is a really tough question to answer because I hate everything. I don’t like pain and I don’t like to be spanked, so you’ll find that I generally like an implement more if it doesn’t cause that much pain. But for the psychological aspects, I like the belt. Having to watch a Top take his belt off to spank me with it really gets into my head. I also like the hand because it is very domestic and usually what I used to think of when I fantasized about being spanked by a parent.

As a Top, I like to use my leather paddle because the handle is easy to get a good grip and and can get a good swing with it when the bottom is bent over something. My absolute least favorite is the cane or anything similar to it. The primary reason for this is that it was never a part of my spanking fantasies because in my mind canings happened overseas and weren’t a common disciplinary method in the U.S. Also it hurts really bad. In my personal life it is not something that gets used on me.

In spanking videos it has yet to be used but I think there is coming a day real soon where I will have to experience it during a shoot. When I am topping, I don’t care to use a cane because it is really hard to control and takes alot of skill to use in a manner that won’t cause harm.

Do you think that a spanking has to be administered on the bare butt for it to work properly?

No, I don’t. In fact, prior to finding out a spanking community existed, when I fantasized about it I was always fully clothed and the spankings would take place over my jeans. Since I enjoy the mental & emotional aspect of a good disciplinary spanking, it is really the scolding that seems to be the biggest part of the experience for me. If a Top is really good at getting into my head and making me feel sorry for my behavior then that is all it takes. I’ve had instances where I’ve felt truly disciplined and contrite without the Top even laying a hand on me.

From a Top standpoint, there are two primary reasons why I think bare bottom spankings are beneficial: 1) It seems to be pretty effective at getting the point across to the one you are disciplining. The pain is greatly increased when the spanking occurs right on the bottom, and for particularly serious offenses I think it is necessary. 2) Allows the Top to make sure they are not breaking the skin or causing bruises or anything that might go against the bottom’s limits. If I am spanking somebody and start to notice a certain area of the bottom looks a little different than the rest I will be careful to avoid that spot.

As a top do you prefer to spank a male or another female?

I actually prefer to spank females, although there are not many females who are open to being spanked by a woman. So the majority of the time I spank males.

As a bottom what is the difference to you in being spanked by a male or another female?

For the most part, males spank harder than females, but of course there are a few exceptions to this. I find that sometimes males are more likely to be stern scolders than females.

What is your favorite spanking position?

I like OTK (over-the-knee) because it has a very parental feel to it. But I have to admit that it is a very uncomfortable position to be in as a bottom because I’m fairly tall (5’8”), so if I’ve earned a pretty long spanking my arms sometimes get tired when I’m bracing myself. I also enjoy being told to bend over something, such as the arm of a couch because I feel very submissive when I’m having to do this. When I am Topping, I prefer to have the bottom bent over something because this allows me to get more momentum when I am spanking. I find it difficult to use alot of force when I have someone OTK.

What are five words that come into your mind when you think of getting a spanking?

Discipline, Punishment, Chastise, Correction, Submissive

 

What is your ultimate spanking fantasy?

Being spanked by a married couple who are very parental and 20 years or so older than me. This would not be a role-play but rather they would truely view me as a surrogate daughter and I would look to them as parental figures in my life. The spanking would take place in their bedroom and the woman would spank me first and then the male would spank me. I would be crying and they would both hug and comfort me afterwards, and then allow me to crawl into bed between them like a little child would and sleep. (This would be completely absolutely totally non-sexual)

 

To find out more about Alicia make sure to check out her blog. Spanking videos featuring Alicia can be found on several sites including Good Spanking and Clare Fonda’s Spanking Pass.